Classic signs af an abuser....things that make you go HMMM....

OK, let's face it, we all know that Heather's blog posts are 100% Frankie's doing.
All of us here at Frankie Stalks me know that Heather does not bother herself to come here let alone read this blog.
The ONLY one who does is the infamous Frankie herself.
Since she has been backed into a corner, she is now using "heather" as her voice.
Might as well add Heather to the aliases she uses.
In fact we will add that to the list of names Frankie uses, on the sidebar.

Let's face it, Frankie is totally trapped right now, she clearly cannot control her anger long enough to keep a loving kind DT member in her group.
And just FYI Heather *haha* I mean FRANKIE....we have no mole now.
The mole has chosen to leave due the the extreme amount of abuse she witnessed you doling out.

Yes, you have chased off another great person, and practically ruined her scrapping and online fun.
Once...again! No surprise there!
We all know you live to torment, and it just pisses you the fuck off, that we all stand against you now!


Guess what Frankie??
We are NOT GOING AWAY!
No matter how many times you post under Heather's ID, no matter how many times you change your name and join free boards!

UNTIL YOU REMOVE MMFY this blog will stand strong in TRUTH and light while you crawl around in LIES and shadows, because you are the classic abuser...you thrive on lies, gossip and pain.

Here I will post the signs of an abuser.

Today I'll share the classic warning signs of an abuser. Read on:

PUSHES FOR QUICK INVOLVEMENT: Comes on strong, claiming, “I've never felt loved like this by anyone.” An abuser presses for an exclusive commitment almost immediately.

Think about it...You are a GREAT scrapper you need to be on my DT now! Come join us we love you!

JEALOUS: excessively possessive; calls constantly or visits unexpectedly; prevents you from going to work because “you might meet someone”; checks the mileage on your car.

You did now show up on the board for 3 hours? You had a family getaway?? Where the fuck are you?? What are you doing??? You hate us!! You hate me! I cannot trust you!

CONTROLLING: Interrogates you intensely (especially if you're late) about whom you talked to and where you were; keeps all the money; insists you ask permission to go anywhere or do anything.

I heard you said something about me!!!! I read the PM you sent (so and so) Your talking shit about me! How dare YOU!

UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS: Expects you to be the perfect mate and meet his or her every need.

You need to be on the board EVEY SINGLE DAY NO SICK DAYS! I need you heer 10 times a day period or you will be FIRED!

ISOLATION: Tries to cut you off from family and friends; accuses people who are your supporters of “causing trouble.” The abuser may deprive you of a phone or car, or try to prevent you from holding a job.

Everyone else hates YOU but I stand up for you and I am the ONLY ONE who cares for you...ie...HEATHER!!!!! Big time Heather....especially now her mother has passed away! Look at the Mole she hates you I will protect you!

BLAMES OTHERS FOR PROBLEMS OR MISTAKES: It's always someone else's fault if something goes wrong.

OH NO My ex members ATTACKED my board Pinky is out to get me! Cherrie is coming Mindy is hassling me! Ivon is out to get me! Every ex member hates me and it hurting me! POOR ME! She always accused Pinky of attacking her board and other ex members.

MAKES OTHERS RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS OR HER FEELINGS: The abuser says, “You make me angry,” or “You're hurting me by not doing what I tell you.”

YOU are causing drama by not being here! YOU make everyone uncomfortable!(in reality it is her!)

HYPERSENSITIVITY : Is easily insulted, claiming hurt feelings when he or she is really mad. Rants about the injustice of things that are just a part of life.

I hate to go back to you hate me and are talking about me...or the huge long "drunk " posts but hey if it fits.

CRUELTY TO ANIMALS OR CHILDREN: Kills or punishes animals brutally. Also may expect children to do things that are far beyond their ability (whips a 3-year-old for wetting a diaper) or may tease them until they cry. Sixty-five percent of abusers who beat their partner will also abuse children.

Giving away her children at birth claiming they were stolen from her!?? Makes you think?

“PLAYFUL” USE OF FORCE DURING SEX: Enjoys throwing you down or holding you against your will during sex; finds the idea of rape exciting.

Ok let's not think about sex with Frankie, I think I just puked!

VERBAL ABUSE: Constantly criticizes or says blatantly cruel things; degrades, curses, calls you ugly names. This may also involve sleep deprivation, waking you with relentless verbal abuse.

Well let's just go with some of the words....whore, bitch, fucking whore, bad mother, fucking bitch...need I go on? I have countless emails.

RIGID GENDER ROLES: Expects you to serve, obey and remain at home.

YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED ON ANY OTHER BOARD PERIOD YOU MUST REMAIN FAITHFUL TO JUST MY BOARD OR YOU ARE BETRAYING ME!!!!!

SUDDEN MOOD SWINGS: Switches from sweet to violent in minutes.

COUNTLESS deleted angry posts then erasing them 1 hour later and begging for friendships.

PAST BATTERING: Admits to hitting a mate in the past, but says the person “made” him (or her) do it. Look at Frankie's trail of abuse! Years now of constant abuse.

THREATS OF VIOLENCE: Says things like, “I'll break your neck,” or “I'll kill you,” then dismisses them with “Everybody talks that way,” or “I didn't really mean it.”

We know she threatened to come kick some ass, and she threatened to murder some of her ex members by having her mob husband kill them.

And she laughs off how she scammed people out of money and claimed she was being sponsored....as "I cannot do that anymore because of the mean girls" acting as if it is funny ripping people off and abusing them!

So who thinks Frankie is not an abuser now??